One hand is enough to slap but two are required to
clap
You slap a person with one hand
and that almost always happens on the spur of the moment arising out of
galloping anger. You bring both hands together to clap to appreciate someone or
something nice. You also bring your
hands together in Namaskar position to show respect to someone. Actions
connecting both hands are happening after some responsible thinking on your
part.
Slapping a person leads to unwanted
or unexpected complications. You may be slapped back. The recipient may hold a
grudge and deal with you later in unimagined ways. You might feel guilty but
not have the courage to apologize. You may be admonished by others and you may
be outlawed.
Clapping in appreciation is a
win-win situation. Both are happy and mutual friendship grows. Showing respect with
Namaskar fold of hands improves relationship. It is easy. Plenty of
opportunities turn up every day.
The title “One hand is enough
to slap but two are required to clap” has deeper connotations. Not just
applicable to the use of hands. In any situation where we may harm ourselves
and others by negative emotions that are quick to surge like anger, envy, fear
etc, it is better to practice switching by slowing down. Just take a couple of
deep breaths. Scenarios will change instantly. Try and tell others your
experience.
Why choose to use only one
hand when God has given you two? Preachy, I might sound. But this write-up, is
in fact a reminder to myself to make deliberate choices that are helpful and
not harmful.
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