beds. But for the 75-year-old Kalpakam Srinivasamurthi it is time for
an online appointment on a popular social networking website she will
not like to give a miss. Her grandchildren, relatives and friends
staying abroad eagerly wait for paati's comments from Chennai.
She logs on again in the evening for some time without fail before
retiring for the day. She does not call herself a Facebook addict but
thinks the knowledge of various applications on the site makes her
Facebook, Orkut and other social networking sites are no longer the
domain of youngsters alone. Senior citizens are increasingly turning
to technology to catch up with like-minded people.
Ms. Kalpakam, for instance, was initiated in to the social networking
site a year ago by her grandson who left it for her to explore the
features further. "I don't like to seem ignorant when everybody around
talks about a subject, that is how I learnt about Facebook. It is a
wonderful way to stay connected," says the septuagenarian who attended
a computer course for homemakers 10 years ago.
Since then it has been a journey of self-learning on the World Wide
Web, something even Vasanthy Devasahayam (62) will vouch. Ms.
Devasahayam recalls how someone had left a comment on her profile
thinking she is a known acquaintance. "Later, I remembered her and
brought out the connection that her mother-in-law was my mother's
friend," says the former advertisement professional who reserves 10.30
p.m. to 1.30 p.m. for browsing the social networking site.
Ever since A. Raman, (65) joined the social networking community he
has renewed his hobby in photography. The member of Humour Club has
uploaded over 200 photographs and has quite a fan following. "The
beauty is that I have renewed many contacts and at the same time I am
cautious on whom to invite as friends and whom not," he says.
For a majority of people, post-retirement social networking sites have
become a good way to stay connected, reminisce memories, get rid of
the boredom or simply to play games from the many features and
P. Vyasamoorthy of Hyderabad moderates the web group sss-global
(Society for Serving Seniors). "There are 550 members, all retired and
net savvy. We exchange about 30 messages daily. Most of the topics
related to elders are discussed. There are quite a few persons from
Chennai who are members of the group," he says.
A year after social networking site www.verdurez.com was launched for
those above 55 years, the creators see its membership increasing – a
majority of them are from the South.
"Connecting like-minded peers helps them alienate loneliness and to a
great extent we could regulate that through our membership. Some lost
their spouse and get advice from others in the group or share
experiences, something which they would not like to discuss with all,"
says Ishita Sukhadwala, founder, Verdurez. One of the oldest members
is an 85 year old, and for many the site with its games and puzzles is
an addiction, she says
news | explorenews (15 February 2010)